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Archive for April 1, 2009
对中国人有偏见的德国人
April 1, 2009 by George.
有一些德国人会有这样的经历：在没有来到中国之前觉得中国很神秘；起初来到中国时对中国人很友善；不幸遇到一些中国人坑了他/她们；于是觉得所有的中国人都不怎么样。过去我遇到过一些这样的德国人，以前的想法是这些德国人太滥了，怎么能够以偏概全呢？于是经常举一些中国人的好例子以及德国人的坏例子以示意见不同。尤其要是与这种德国人共事，也只是肯定他/她们优秀的一面而同时对他/她们的以偏概全嗤之以鼻。但是最近我发现，要想与这种德国人更好的合作，总是单单否定他/她们的偏见也无济于事，因为有了这个阴影，与他/她们沟通时就难免带出一点儿不满的情绪，不利于事情的解决。其实对同一个人同一件事有不同意见是很正常的事，只不过有时候这种不同的看法会引起更大的矛盾。如果有些事必须要通过这个人才能办成，那么以“就事论事”的方式进行处理而尽量避免感情因素的影响就显得很重要了。而要做到这一点，就得能够有效的平衡与控制自己的理智与情感。
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